The New York Times bestselling social skills guide for kids
For kids 6-12 who freeze up, go quiet, or never know what to say
What Can I Say?
- 📖 25 real social situations with the exact words shown in speech bubbles
- 🗣️ What to say when they freeze up at a birthday party or can't join a group
- 🛡️ How to handle teasing, set boundaries, and say no without losing friends
- 💡 Written for kids to read themselves — no parent coaching required
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Meet Catherine Newman
Catherine Newman spent ten years as Real Simple magazine's etiquette columnist and edited the James Beard Award–winning kids' magazine ChopChop — teaching people what to say is literally her job. What Can I Say? hit the New York Times bestseller list, following her breakout kids' guide How to Be a Person. Illustrated by Debbie Fong, it gives kids 6–12 the exact words for the moments school never covers.
✓ New York Times Bestseller
✓ Real Simple Etiquette Columnist
✓ Contributor, The New York Times
From Shy To Confident In Every Conversation
Real-world skills for making friends and expressing yourself
From Shy To Confident In Every Conversation
Real-world skills for making friends and expressing yourself
Build Social Confidence
Learn to introduce yourself, start conversations, and handle awkward moments with ease.
Navigate Friendships
Master the art of being a good friend, managing conflicts, and expressing empathy effectively.
Speak Up & Speak Out
Develop the courage to ask for help, set boundaries, and stand up for yourself and others.
Real-World Scenarios
Practice with relatable examples kids actually face at school, home, and in everyday life.
Loved By 15,213+ Families
Join thousands helping their kids navigate friendships with ease
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Real experiences from real customers who love our products.
"Helped My Daughter Navigate Middle School Drama"
Middle school can be brutal, and my 12-year-old was constantly stressed about friend drama and gossip. This book taught her how to shut down negativity, be a good ally, and communicate her boundaries. She's now more confident standing up for herself and others. The chapter on handling gossip alone was worth the price. Wish I had this guide when I was growing up!
"Every Parent Needs This Book"
I purchased this for my 9-year-old twins, and it's been a game-changer for our whole family. They used to come home upset about playground conflicts or not knowing how to respond to rude comments. Now they have practical tools to handle these situations. We read it together at bedtime, and it sparked amazing conversations. Highly recommend for any parent wanting to raise socially confident, empathetic kids!
"My Son's Confidence Has Skyrocketed"
I bought this book for my 10-year-old who was struggling with social anxiety at school. Within weeks, I noticed him initiating conversations and handling awkward situations with so much more ease. The real-life scenarios really clicked with him. Now he actually looks forward to group projects and lunch with friends. This book gave him the tools he needed to express himself authentically. Best parenting resource I've purchased!
"Wish I Had This as a Kid"
Bought this thinking it might help my 11-year-old grandson, but honestly, I learned a lot too! The advice is practical, modern, and actually useful—not the generic 'just be yourself' stuff. My grandson now handles peer pressure better, knows how to apologize sincerely, and even asks adults for help when he needs it. The section on being a good ally really opened his eyes. Fantastic resource!
"Finally, a Social Skills Book That Actually Works"
As a teacher, I've seen countless social skills resources, but this one stands out. I recommended it to parents of my 4th graders, and the feedback has been incredible. The illustrations are engaging, the scenarios are spot-on, and kids actually want to read it. One shy student told me it helped her know what to say when meeting new friends. I now keep copies in my classroom library!
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does shipping take?
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Orders are processed and shipped within 1–2 business days. Once shipped, delivery takes 5–7 business days worldwide. Every order includes tracked shipping — you'll receive your tracking number by email the moment your book is on its way.
What format does this guide come in?
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This is a physical paperback book with a soft, flexible cover. It features colorful illustrations throughout and is designed to be easy for kids to hold and read. The book is not available as an e-book or audiobook at this time.
What age group is this book best suited for?
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This guide is perfect for children ages 8-12 (elementary to middle school). However, younger children may enjoy reading it with a parent, and teens can still benefit from the practical communication strategies covered in the book.
Can adults benefit from this book too?
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Absolutely! While written for kids, many parents and educators find the social skills advice helpful for themselves as well. The communication strategies are universally applicable and can improve how families talk about feelings, conflicts, and social situations together.
How is this different from other social skills books?
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This book stands out for its relatable, real-world scenarios that kids actually face today, including digital communication and being an ally. Written by bestselling author Catherine Newman with engaging illustrations by Debbie Fong, it uses humor and warmth rather than lecturing, making kids want to read it.
Is this book suitable for children with social anxiety or autism?
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Many parents have found this book helpful for children with social anxiety, autism, or other challenges that affect social interaction. The clear, practical examples and step-by-step guidance can be especially beneficial. However, it's designed as a general social skills guide, not a therapeutic resource.
What if my child doesn't like the book?
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We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you're not satisfied for any reason, simply contact us for a full refund, no questions asked. We're confident your child will benefit from this guide!
